Wow Melissa,
Just looked back through all your posts and the word EPIC comes to mind (is it 14 chapters now?)

On your very first post, I totally empathize your feelings towards D. It IS stupid. To want to totally turn your life upside down, upset the kids, upset your finances, dealing with lawyers because of basically "hurt feelings" or lack of communication skill is unfathomable to me. My exceptions to this is infidelity and physical abuse. Anything else could and SHOULD be fixable.

"For better or for worse" means just that! Not "For better and when my feelings are hurt i'm splitsville!"

Me 43 W 43
S 10 (Special Needs)
M: 14 yrs
T: 18 yrs
Bomb: 09/16/12
Filed for D: WHO KNOWS???