OK, guys. I need some help here!

H just texted me:

Have you discussed your filing with the kids?

For those who have been through this, is there a time when my jaw won't drop at everything he says and does?

What the HELL is that supposed to mean? Is he actually asking me out of curiosity and concern for the kids? (Not likely.)

Or is he suggesting that the blame for this, as far as the kids are concerned, is mine?

I mean, there are a lot of ways to take that, but not many of them are good.

I feel like he is definitely trying to manipulate me.

And I have to say, I am SO glad I filed for S and not D. Because I somehow knew he would make it my fault if I did. As far as I am concerned, all my filing does is legalize what is already happening.

Why can't he just leave me alone?


me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14