So d15 is not expecting a divorce, I think, given her statement that "we" are looking for an apartment. What do we tell her when W starts looking, which might be next week already (school break)? How does one break this news? Is the "ma and I unfortunately don't get along anymore and so we are looking for separate places" tack good? It seems to be, as it is honest, and respectful of d15. I am concerned that doing this in the school year could influence d15's grades and experience of school.
Does each of the apartments or houses or whatever need to have a bedroom for each kid? s20 is away at college, in his 2nd year.
One possibility is that I stay in the ground floor apartment here. It has the advantage of being easy to move into, but small, really just for one person. Perhaps not leaving is psychologically also not leaving the R -
Getting Past your Breakup is useful.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
