In my sitch I shut my mouth when it comes to her seeing our son. It's her loss if she doesn't see him. I could say, you said you were planning on coming during xyz time, but it's no use. Sure it affects him but I can't control what she does. This is something she's going to learn the hard way. When I can, I do make it easy for her to see him though.
Point is, if it's something you can't control(your h), then let him suffer the consequences of not seeing your child. But if it's something you control(yourself) and you are willing to provide visitation, then go for it. Am example from my sitch. My ex is constantly changing her plans to see our son. If it doesn't affect me I don't say anything. If I am able to take them out somewhere or be home so she can stop by, I will do so.
I'm no expert and my sitch is weird, so take what I say with a grain of salt.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
