Newbie needs help:husband left Saturday

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Well, updating: I called husband this afternoon and just updated him casually about the ice situation: "You know how we get that ice on our roof that then ices over and falls - well I couldn't make it into work today - the kids told me you slipped on the ice this morning too". He was relaxed and chatted about it and said I could always call him to help with the kids on late start days, since they told him they had stayed with a neighbor recently on a late start. So I guess I'm happy we can be pleasant to each other. I have to get to a point where I recognize that that's all it is though. It is still so sad to me.