Thanks for leading me to that thread LFW. I'm only about two pages in but I may be able to help out.
Journaling:
There's a bit of poetic justice in working so early and being out of the house before the school rush starts. I've chased the kids on my own for so long now my wife has to step in and do it off a morning. I still do the bulk of the afternoon and evening lifting as far as the kids are concerned and I she seems unimpressed that she has to do the mornings but deep down I believe this is good for us. Spread the workload, more money coming into our household and we spend less time around one another while still having plenty of time to see each other at day's end.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014