You need to pull her to the side and start telling her that she had no right to talk to your D alone like that about your situation. That the two of you should have discussed what to say and done it together so as not to impact the kids too much.
STOP accepting things the way they are and start doing something.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
