So I woke up today from a nice dream. Our house had sold, my mom, sister, H and I were there packing the house up, and privately my H voices his uncertainty about leaving the marriage to my mother(they don't get along, my mom despises him). She encourages him to tell me about it, and so he does. I am all too happy to hear that and we proceed to hug and kiss. I wake up. See a text from my H that he is going to be late in coming to watch the kids. I debate on whether or not I should ask him if he is staying later because I don't want him to take it as me being controlling. Ultimately, I do text him about it and he responds that he is leaving at the usual time unless I have something to do. I respond with it isn't about me, it's about the kids. We set times(just the other day) that you are going to be here with the kids and now you're coming later. I think you owe it to the kids to stay the amount of time you had promised. He responded with okay. I don't know if he's angry about it or what. I know he wants to leave at a certain time to make his crossfit class(he's into his physique now). So I don't know if he's raging about it at home...
