I mistyped something in my last post which makes a huge difference:
"We talk a lot about our expectations of the WAS around being responsible for their "issues", it's now NOT our job to fix them, if they had only...

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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss