Wife wants divorce - my first post

[tbm4evr]

Thanks Hs. But how am I to put myself in a vacuum when we are living together with kids - I'm just going out all the time to give her space ... i dont know if she'll eventually miss me. Hell, we're just going on a family vacation and she filed for divorce ...i told I didn't know if we should go but the kids are so excited and she WANTS to. I asked her if she would be ok packing for the kids tonight on her own, etc because I needed to go out and pick something up. She said fine and asked if I could pick up dinner for us ...i just don't know ...we have to talk and let each other know our plans - we have kids. I can't really "not make contact" so how do I create an emotional vacuum?