I hope you have been able to calm yourself down. I hate anxiety attacks. I am so sorry that he is pushing right now. Pressure is coming from somewhere, likely from the OW.
So much of this MLC stuff does not make sense. Read all we want to and it all sounds kinda normal but then be with a reali-life MLCer and you feel like you stepped into Wonderland and have just smoked what the caterpillar smoked.
One step at a time. I am proud of you for getting legal advice and taking care of the business end. H will be stunned that you are so prepared! Good.
Then again, this whole request may die off as quickly as it came. After all, it doesn't actually appear that HE has done any homework!
On the flip side, please take care of yourself. This is so much harder than anyone thinks. Especially if you are soft in the middle, like me.
