Yes, I've been considering counseling for both kids. D was against it at first, but now is more open to the idea.

It is strange how they can be so ill, yet put on a mask and fool other people around them.

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014