Thanks Melissa. I will google it and see how ltr may help me in this sitch. I will not ignore her when it comes to kids ..thx for the advice. In response to her emails I just said I would give her space and let her do what she wants and that is what i have been doing. Of course her response was that "i am not capable of leaving her alone and giving her space" ... over time i will just have to show her I am and hope that she comes around and wants to keep the family together.
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14