Thank you for your responses!! I do always feel a great sense of accomplishment when I am able to do things on my own! Going with my first thought of doing it without H's help! Have been reminded that letting him help us, eases his guilt of what he is doing to us for a second time!!! Besides, S needs to be able to do this kind of stuff!!!
Eric, I believe that we are halfway across the country from you so it might just be more economical with the rising gas prices to take your Wrangler to a Jiffy Lube or the like!!!
BD-Aug 2009 OW Confirmed H moves out Dec 2009 D filed by H-Mar 2010 H asks to come home April 2011 BD AGAIN 1-15-2014! H seeing FOW! H ran away again! 1-18-2014