Just one thing to add. I agree with Lost. My question thought is how do you feel about taking care of things? Do they give you a sense of accomplishment, do you feel better knowing that you can take care of it? I guess my point, is do whatever makes YOU feel best. Make your decisions about YOU and less about H.
BTW, if you are changing oil...can I drive over my Wrangler? She's due for a oil change.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
