This is also something i am going to have to face pretty soon and although i see myself as fairly strong even thinking about this brings a lump to my throat and a knot in my stomach. I guess its no conversation any off us ever thought we would have to do. Its something i spend quite a lot of time worrying and researching and have probably kidded myself that it will go away, not likely My W and i are so much focused on our children (maybe thats been one of our downfalls) that its one of the few areas that i think could be used as leverage to wanting to 'try' but i know i cant use it as a reason without pressure. I will be thinking of you Bluesgal xx
Me: 39 W: 33 Son:7 Daughter:4 Its Over: March 7th 2013 Moved back home Mid June, trying to make it work