Blues please share how the conversation with kids go. This has been a real struggle for me as well. H hasn't moved out but s is having a hard time going for a day or 2 without seeing him at all.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15