Ahhh....That makes sense. I have a faux leather ottoman. Even though my kids are older, boy do they make the thing an absolute mess.
I have homework for you....Go read up (in newcomers) on a poster called recruit. See the issues EXTREME co-dependency cause. Show him that even though things aren't perfect in your relationship, that following DB does start to work, but just takes time.
By the way...your post on detachment to another poster was excellent. It is good to see you are learning.
