CC, I'm sorry you found the ow's house keys in your h's car. I'm sure you were very hurt for a while, but you realized later that he's still out there doing his thing and seeking the comfort of another individual who is just as broken as he is. She's really nothing more than a crutch or as we say here a Band-Aid.
Continue to work on you, do things for yourself when he's w/the kids. Nothing says you have to be around all of the time when he has the kids. Pamper yourself as much as you can and let your kids know that you are there for them when their father isn't around.
Continue as you have been. You've been doing well and know how to handle your situation. Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
