Also it was the potential OM that took delivery of the flowers... My W seemed to find this amusing. She also stated that perhaps I should have just "p*ssed on her" ie marked my territory instead of sending them as it would have been cheaper!
So she she talked openly about the OM delivering the flowers? Did he find it amusing as well?
Her remark about marking your territory........did it cause you to feel she appreciated you sending flowers?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
