I'm not sure how emotionally stable you are right now considering how fast everything is moving in your sitch, but you seem to be doing well.
"So that 180 didn't inspire a very good reaction from him. He isn't used to me not being considerate with him. I'm not sure if I should continue not doing things for him or if I should stop and turn the consideration back on. Hmm..."
One thing a poster told me about 180's was that I'm only supposed to do 180's that are positive. They say to be a spouse only a fool would leave. I'm still a little confused by that one. They also say to be friendly but not friends. I think a lot of info may contradict so it's up to us to decide what suits our sitch's best.
The road to reconciliation is a long hard one. I hope you're up for the challenge!!
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
