Thanks for replying Brian and AnotherStander. When I read your question about why I felt I was betrayed, I tried to understand why I felt that. The reason, I think, is because there were several things that happened over the course of 2013 that made me feel that she wanted to have fun away from us. Then, the way that she framed the whole thing, wanting to go by herself without us, even when I asked her if she wanted for all of us to go together, made me feel that she did not want us to be with her anymore. That's what triggered my confrontation after she came back. It was "Do you still want us to be a family, or do you want to leave and be on your own?"
She said that she was contemplating divorce but she was unsure of what she wanted to do. I wanted to discuss it, but she said that it wasn't me it was her, and that she didn't want to break the family, rather she wanted to stay together and work things out. 3 weeks later she dropped the bomb.
