H seeing FOW...again

[courageouswife]

Hey Eric thanks for checking on me! I am good! Monday was a low day for me! Gotta allow ourselves one of those once in awhile!

All is well here! Kids are doing good! Got a roof over my head, bills are paid, it was 56 degrees here today! Work has been busy so money is good this week! Looking forward to visiting with my brother and his family and my bestie in my hometown this weekend!!!

Texted H today to let him know that D and I would be our of town and S would be staying home to take care of animals and that SS & family would be around for him if there was an emergency. He texted back to check oil in the jeep and asked if he & S should split some wood this weekend. Told him we had split some on Sunday and that I see jeep was due for an oil change and would take care of that when I got back. He texted back that he would do it, just let him know when would work.

I have not replied yet as S and I are quite capable of doing it ourselves and had planned to do it ourselves. Last time H was gone, I spoke with a DB coach and she encouraged me to include or let H help/feel needed...IDK...