Divorce on the table, Hoping for Miracle 2

[Groov]

Well, I am sitting here at work thought I would update:

W seems pretty set in the direction of D. The funny thing is that she keeps waiting on me to make up my mind on how I want the assets split up. I have basically told her that I want my current residence and the rest is for her to figure out. She goes back and forth on "threatening alimony" and not. I feel she is operating from a place of fear.

W froze the joint credit card last week. It's causing a cashflow problem as it was used to buffer the accounts.

Question: How do I drag my feet in this and still be cooperative? She knows I do not want to D.

I feel sad for the kids... I am also worried about maintaining myself with our family home and make ends meat at the same time.

I am feeling more and more detached from W. She's cold, has a thick wall. I'm 7 months in my sitch and trying to maintain hope, faith and love.

Anyway wanted to vent.

Groov