So in my attempt to inspire a reaction from my husband I have dyed my hair. I generally like the natural look, but I recall a few months ago my H mentioning my hair was too plain. I'm not overweight, I'm pretty, but I'm not the type to wear overly revealing clothes. I lean more towards the conservative in my normal wear. I'm going to try to change that. Ive also tried changing the way I interact with him here and there just to see what reactions I get. He comes to the house and watches our kids and I usually make enough dinner for all of us, but yesterday after returning from an errand I just served myself a plate without offering him any(usually he doesn't need an invitation) and went upstairs for the duration of his stay. As he was leaving, he brought up that he was leaving sooner because he hadn't eaten anything while he was here, that he hadn't touched any of the food. So that 180 didn't inspire a very good reaction from him. He isn't used to me not being considerate with him. I'm not sure if I should continue not doing things for him or if I should stop and turn the consideration back on. Hmm...
