Originally Posted By: AJM
Honestly? You think he's a mind reader?? If you want something or feel something, don't put up a wall for it. Let him know you are not comfortable with it, if that is truly the case. Let him know the good the bad and the ugly and be prepared for compromise - by both of you. You remember. Before all of this you two could compromise and it was ok?? smile


Nope. I think he can be quite clueless (as all males can be smile But this...this one is important to me that he gets a clue. It's a sign for me of his growth and moving on and resolving that past. Of course he knows how much the whole thing hurts me and how much I despise them. He agrees that even though he felt like at the time we were not together and he never, ever had a chance of getting back together with me, I still feel that we were married. And he agrees with that too. But considering he still can't even tell me who they are, tells me he isn't at that stage yet. I would rather have those nasty people on his FB account than the only reason they are removed is because I want them to be. I've blocked all of them. But if he still wants to keep them as friends for whatever reason, so be it. *shrugs*


M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17