Job and Wonka popped in on my sitch as I've finally admitted to myself the truth, that H is in full on MLC. (I was hoping for a quicker marriage issue)
They told me to read up on your posts and I've read word for word from beginning until now and I am so amazed and even feel a sense of hope for my M. You are so strong and so committed to yourself and your family. You are my DB hero! I am so happy for you and H. I look forward to all of your updates.
If you ever get a chance, can you elaborate on the beginning BD? What did your H anger/blame look like and how long until you feel like he started to look inward? What things did he say? Does he remember saying those things? Thanks in advance!
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
