Working on Divorce Busting every Day!

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I had a revelation today. I admit I must be completely slow but my H is completely 100% selfish and it is all about him. Today was child/house switch day. My 2.5 year old is having a really hard time with it. She first said "Bye mommy I love you, I'll miss you and then she always goes I go with you. I need you" I said I need you to but your going to have fun with Daddy. He gave me this horrible glare where it appears he wishes I would just disapear off the face of the earth. Apparently he must have got the shared parenting paperwork back and I did not agree to his every wish. Big surprise!:)
Then about a 1/2 hour later he texted about a binky for the baby. As long as the conversation revolves around him directly or indirectly he is happy to text/talk. He is the one reaching out then he will pull back even farther. Maybe this is a sympton of the WAS? I am letting him be in the drivers seat as far as communication goes. He looks awful. He should look great. He's had 5 days of no responsibility. Apparently he's still not "happy". Imagine that.
I have also decided after seeing the remodeling in progress at our dream home that if I don't get it and can't financially. I won't know then I am going to do everything in my power to have it sold. The house belongs with a family that will truly love it. The house is made for entertaining. My H hates to entertain and it needs a women's touch and (censored) if I'm going to allow to some other woman of my H to entertain out of my dream home.
Thanks to one of the melissag's advice on here. I again told my attorney I don't care how long the divorce takes. The longer the better. I just want what's fair for myself and my children.