Bookmark 25yearsmlc's last two posts and read them several times a day until you actually FEEL what she is saying. She is dead on accurate.
Once you get to that place, everything (decisions, life, your R with your H) will be much, much clearer.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.