Yeah we chat most days now. At first she was completely NC with me, but now 90% of it is her calling/txting me. I try only to get in touch if its regarding the kids or urgent.
She has actually instigated some really pleasant chats this last few days, including one quite deep one about some past problems she had.
Me 41, W 39 Married 5 years Together 10 years S4, D2