The LTR technique is where you tell your spouse that you agree with your spouse to the D. That "frees" them up and gives them the space they crave while you work on yourself.
What do you think makes this OM better than you? Probably the main thing is that he has nothing to lose like you do, so he's much more "alpha" and has a no care attitude. Your W wants him because he doesn't have anything to lose and can play around with your W with no personal consequence to him. He gives her just enough so that she feels he's going to leave her if she doesn't give him attention. She wants what she can't have.
You need to be the same.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
