Thank you for replying!! I have contacted attorneys and have been assured that if we go to court it would not be good and work in his favor. He and I both agreed to not go through attorneys though. We would like to do things by mediation and mutual agreement. It saves us money and at the same time keeps it somewhat amicable. I'm mostly going the mediation route because I know if we go to court things will most likely get ugly and probably destroy any chance we have at R. Also, I don't think he is going to wait very much longer before filing D. He has already consulted paralegals and legal document places so I believe he is going to do it soon. When we first separated he was in such a hurry to file that my head was spinning. He hasn't though and I know it's probably not because he's reconsidering, more like he hasn't found the time. As far as him providing support, he has stressed numerous times that he doesn't care how much he pays as long as he has his freedom. I think the issue now is sitting down and talking about a set amount. I don't look forward to that! I have little while before the house sells so as of right now it's not that urgent(we still share a bank account). I'm kind of losing hope for a reconciliation. There is nothing positive to any of this, we are just slowly pushing eachother further and further apart.
