MrBond, the actions i am taking are that i am in IC, getting help form me, as to why i have done this repeatedly. I have maid progress, I have maid changes in the way that i interact with people, meaning that i dont share personal info at all. I have become transparent, so my wife will know where i am and what i am doing at all times. She has access to everything. I am trying in every way possible to gain prove that i am sincere and can and am changing.
You are right, it was pretty low. My W forgave me the first time when the 2 OW were involved, this time it was an EA with an OW. She was someone i only emailed frequently and spoke with on occassion. I had been friends with the OW for many years and had always communicated with her. I never quit communicating with her when i met my wife, and i should have.
