I'm wondering if I should continue to give her space by going into our bedroom most nights and reading or should I stay in the living room and be available if she wants to talk. Keep my mouth shut about R or M obviously. I don't want to push but I also don't want her to think I'm ignoring her.
Where she is at right now is she gets uptight if I help her or if I don't. She got upset because I didn't wake her up the other morning but she's sleeping in the guest room and has her alarm clock. Now if she's not down stairs at the regular time I'll knock on the door to make sure she's awake. She'd get upset if I cleaned the snow off her car - so I stopped and then she seemed upset about that too.
I know the only thing worse than being on the receiving end of someone's bitterness is being the one carrying it around.
It feels like she just wants me to be the one that quits - not sure if I will ever get to that point. Guess I'll know it when or if I do.
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14
