WAW Said She's Done-pt.4- What Happened?

[OneDay]

KGirl, Thank you thats just what I needed. Yes told her a few times that I didnt want a D and she said I can hear that and see that from you. She probably still can. IDK

You guys I really dont think I can hold out any longer. I feel that I have to confront her about the affair.

She texts him constantly and has been talking to him every night since saturday night. (the night I think they went out together) She goes to her room (which use to be S10's) and called the OM. Yes the door is closed and she was talking softly, but I couldn't believe it and I still cant. I feel violated, betrayed and disrespected in my own home. Every part of me feels I have to confront her....

....Now on the other hand, the legal side. My attorney doesn't want me to say anything to her and said we should hire a Private Investigator. Reason being, is because she is trying to portray me an unfit parent and get majority custody of the boys. Its obvious since she BD, that she is the unfit parent. She has been going out getting drunk, staying out all night, coming home at 2, 3, 4am etc. And now with the OM she is really sneaky, staying out late during the week, and weekends and putting all her focus on him.

She has become very sneaky and is bold facing lying to me, the children and her side of the family. Im so lost, and I dont know what to do. Its killing me to know what I know and not confront her about it.

I dont know how much longer I can hold up. For my sanity and my boys sake.

GUYS I NEED YOUR HELP! Should I confront her.