Sorry you are here blinded. DB won't guarantee that your marriage will be saved, but it will save you. get the book as soon as possible.
Originally Posted By: blinded
My wife recently started becoming very distant, and over Christmas went by herself to visit her brother in a different country than where I live. I took this as betrayal to our home and child, because she left on the 26th of December and came back on the 3rd of January, leaving me and our child alone to spend the New Year's.
This perplexes me. I don't mean this as an attack so please don't take it that way...but this sounds either controlling or smothering. Why do you feel it was a betrayal for her to visit family and not be with you?
Keep posting your thoughts and you will eventually be off moderation. Don't fight with her. Come here and do your complaining, or questioning, or crying, etc.. You would be amazed how much better we feel to do it here and not do it to our spouse and possibly make things worse.
