Wife wants divorce - my first post

[tbm4evr]

Thought this through and think I will leave things be ...if W wants to go out afterwards I'm not going to say no. I'll give her space. We both see the same therapist. I have not made another appt - do you think I should go see him to see where he goes with my counseling following my wife's meeting with him - trying to gage if wife open to making it work or just tried to validate her position that divorce is the answer. I'm pretty sure at this point it's the latter. Does the W always tell you if they want to make R work or sometimes not mention it and see where things go? I don't want to bring up her counseling appt, I'm sure if she had something to share she would just tell me.