It sounds like you feel guilty talking to him about child/ spousal support. Don't feel guilty, that's his obligation. It's not charity! If he says he doesn't want to talk about it or that he doesn't think he needs to pay it, then consult with a lawyer to determine your options. Often the WAS will move out and will go months or even years without pursuing formal S or D, so sometimes women are in financial limbo when their H leaves. You need to protect yourself and the kids financially. Good luck!
