Wife wants divorce - my first post

[tbm4evr]

Thanks Hs. I know for sure that if my wife left that I would be just fine too. I would meet someone else and make them very happy but that's not at all what I want either.

My W tells me she wants to go out with her friend tonight after her dinner meeting. I was going to go take care of some things tonight but said ok - should I have "stood up" and said no I need do some things, and I'll be home by 1030 if she wants to go out then. I have been very accommodating to her schedule ...does that make me look weak with no b@lls?