I am definitely struggling with the same question. By relieving all the pressure on her and giving her what she wants, she can decide to just eat cake till whenever. Then I would think at what point is all this futile? When do I need to cut loose and start over? I tell you one thing it's going to be hard to find someone else, if nothing gets resolved, while you still live with your wife or ex. A real romance killer!
Me 43 W 43 S 10 (Special Needs) M: 14 yrs T: 18 yrs Bomb: 09/16/12 Filed for D: WHO KNOWS???