Does anyone else ever feel like this this whole DB'ing is wrong. (I understand the part of working on myself, but everything does not feel right)

I feel like I should be talking, texting and calling her more to show Im interested. I wonder at times if she is thinking, well he seems okay with getting a D, I guess I made the right choice. Hes not pursuing, chasing, flirting or even trying to get me back. He's just out doing his own thing and getting a life.

It just doesn't feel like I'm fighting for her. I am alone here?


Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14