I need all the help i can get

[Recruit]

So the flowers were delivered.... And immediately I recieved a thank you message saying how beautiful they are an how appreciated they are.

I had preempted their delivery with this message - "We all really appreciate how hard you are working and how much effort it takes to do what you do. Hopefully you will see how much we love and respect you as a wife, mummy and friend." This is a big 180 for me as usually I would moan and be passive aggressive about her going away etc.

She then engaged me in a txt conversation discussing the future, with me in it. She mentioned that she had discussed with her boss that we hadn't been getting on (ever so slight an understatement!) and his replies seemed to have tempered her desire to break us up.

Now, I have no expectations and I'm not believing anything I hear, but today feels like a good day and we might be gaining some traction.