Raine, There will be quite a few things that he won't remember because they happened in the fog. He's not sidestepping the issues in some cases. It takes time for them to process being home and feeling comfortable I their own skin again. Once they actually return home, it takes approximately 12-18 months before they are truly comfortable. During that time, some of them may skirt around issues and others will begin to open up and talk about things. But, there will be some memories that remain forgotten, not deliberately swept under the bed.
I realize you want to discuss things now...but the process took time pre crisis and the process of returning takes just as much time to land and feel safe once again. If you become over anxious or push for answers, he will run back up into his rabbit hole.
Please be patient. The answers will come.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
