The thing is that your W needs to see you in a different light. Have you done anything to yourself to give yourself a physical makeover? You have to adapt the same positive/alpha attitude you did when you first dated her.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
