Hi T-Boned I think that it is a symptom of the MLC that in their fantasyland once the paperwork is signed - all feelings, hurt, etc will just magically fade away and they can go off into lala land and live happily ever after. I'm just starting this journey though but it is odd that all the men same 90% of the same things.
W-38 H-42 T-11 M-8 C-6,2,6 months BD-Oct 1 2013 DFiled-Jan 6 2014 Went Dark - April 4, 2014