Don't know what to think

[BrightFuture]

T, I don’t think you need to move to another forum. It could be even slower over there. I know it is frustrating when nobody responds on your posts.

All I can say is that your H thinks that once all legal stuff is done, he will feel different. There are many cases on this board when WAS says the same words. It doesn’t happen this way most of the times, if ever. He thinks that after the D is final, all his guilt will magically disappear and he will not feel like he is hurting you anymore. Whatever idea he has in his head, there is nothing you can do to change it at the moment. Let him figure it out for himself.