I won't give up II

[Notlikingthis]

Bright, Thanks for your thoughts. He IS still nuts but is feeling guilt as well. He knows what this is going to do to our younger daughter and he doesn't want to think about that either.

You are right. The ow's h coming to visit was what gave him the excuse to go ahead and do what he's wanted to do for awhile now. I can hear him now when he explains to his attorney or someone that knows us. "I filled for separation because my wife didn't tell me that my girlfriends husband was coming to visit." Never mind that his statement isn't completely true.

I will continue to watch the finances and try not to obsess about this.