NLT, sorry to hear that he brought up the subject again. Breath, you are going to be fine. I have a suspicion that this decision came after OW’s H’s visit. I think your H realized that he’s been living in a kind of peculiar situation, with somebody else’s W, while still legally married to you. Maybe this is his way to make it look more respectable, I don’t know. He is still nuts though.
We can speculate all day about his motives, and they might be different from what we think anyway. The only thing here is that he is kind of wishy washy about the whole thing. Protect yourself financially and wait for the answer about his motives. He will reveal them sooner or later.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state