Raine, I have been reading along and always look for your updates. I don’t really know what kind of advice I can give you, since I haven’t gone through similar experience. All I know is that when I think about possible reconciliation with my H, I also have the same kind of thoughts about hiding things and not trusting. This has been our issue in our M.
You mentioned that there is so much that he still doesn’t remember. Could it be one of the issues for him not talking about things? Do the certain memories come back for him eventually?
I have this quote that I have handy all the time and read often “To restore harmony into a relationship, focus on what you appreciate about the other person, and not your complaints. When you focus on the wonderful things and you appreciate those, you will be astounded at how many more things to appreciate suddenly appear in the other person.” I hope this helps a little.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
