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Melissa, Melissa, Melissa...you're STILL explaining and defending yourself in switching the L's. Do you see this "bad" habit of yours?? That is injecting emotion. Remember KISS rule??

Oh boy...you'll get a spew from H. I am sorry if I am being direct here. But this is how H responds to your texts when you try to "explain" or "defend" yourself or your actions/decisions.

PLEASE, PLEASE post your draft responses here first for feedback before you hit the "send" button. We could save you tons of heartache here.

I'll be keeping an eye out on you tonight...oh boy, boy.